OK, he asked for advice and we gave him exactly what he had before - opposing opinions.
OP, physics is physics. Friction between road and tire is directly proportionate to tire footprint on the road. You lower pressure, tire flattens some, you get more contact, you have more surface area, you have more friction. It is a s simple as that. This is why ALL vehicles that are designed for crappy roads up in real north of Earth have very large, soft tires with controlled inflation. But that is beyond a simple point. So you lower pressure to about 30 to drive on snow, then you get to normal cleaned asphalt or concrete freeway or arterial. You have to raise pressure back to whatever the plaquet on the door says - 32, or you will ruin tires very fast on the edges. Are you really going to do this game every time you drive? Set it to 32 and don't bother.
Question most important - do you have all wheel drive or not? AWD surely makes life much easier. You are not off roading in Yakutsk. You are driving on normally well maintained roads in the USA and AWD, if nothing stupid is done, usually does just fine as is.
Question of second most importance. GET WINTER TIRES. Go to Discount Tire website, pick best priced winter tires for your car. Unless you have to drive on ice a lot, you do not need studded tires. If you want to be super frugal, go to a junk yard tire shop. They will sell you wheels and winter tires for fraction of the cost of the new ones, as you will use them for only few months. It is much faster and easier, to simply put winter tires on cheap wheels on, for winter, and take them off, for spring and so on. Instead of paying tire shop every time to mount and dismount and balance them. Storage of course becomes and issue, I don't know your housing situation.
Plenty Canadians here with advice. Here's mine, from a guy who drove for years a manual car, in very cold and snowy country, on bad no traction tires in the city, situated on 7 hills, so whichever way you go, it's up or down the hill, with very poorly maintained roads:
1. winter tires
2. very gentle accelerations. VERY
3. very gentle steering wheel maneuvers. VERY. What means a lot of ahead planning.
4. lots of engine braking instead of pedal braking
5. if you hit the patch and went into glide, do NOT brake. IMMEDIATELY shift into neutral. THEN do pulse braking. Again, NO sudden steering wheel movements.
Basically, you triple your distance to a car in front of you and make everything else very slow and well planned ahead. Going up hill or down hill, you get right side of your car off the road, onto shoulder, as it's always filled with rocks and pebbles, what results in high friction surface. Stay away from anything black on the road. If possible, drive on SNOW as snow is high friction, when not compacted.
Remember one thing. Even if you have AWD or 4x4, if you do stupid, you go from four wheel drive to four wheel slide.