I'm not sure on how to lower it, but you can order the stuff from a dealer who can usually next day deliver it.

Here are the part numbers and a bit of info:

Lug wrench - 09150-AD020

Used on:

2001-2007 Sequoia
1999-2006 Tundra
1996-2004 Tacoma
1995-1998 T100

There are 3 pieces of the cranking rod. The jack end, center, and crank end. All 3 are specific to the 2001-2007 Sequoia and are not interchangeable with other vehicles.

Jack end rod - 09115-0C020

Center rod - 09114-0C020

Jack end rod - 09116-0C010

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You can probably use the Tundra parts as well, even if they don't interchange, as the only likely difference is that they are longer than the Sequoia parts (rods) and they look identical. This only applies to 1999-2006 Double Cab or Access Cab (extended cab) models as the regular cab models have a one piece rod that is too short.

 

there is probably some trashed truck somewhere, try a junk yard

 

I was able to cobble one together for my ford van using all of my socket wrench extensions put together. I either used a 3/8" or 1/2" for the end