@Sicc562,
You absolutely, positively need to step away from the "I have a code, let's throw parts at it," approach to maintenance. Some OBD codes are pretty directly indicative of both the area of issue as well as the fix, others, just suggestive. A misfire could be caused by a bad plug, a bad coil, wiring to the coil being compromised, etc. You gain nothing by replacing all coils, plugs, etc., "just because."
You also need to get your Owner's Manual out and read it. (
Toyota Manuals and Warranties | Toyota Owners) The Maint Reqd light is discussed in detail there, and as
@sdspeed has told you, it comes on to indicate an oil change is needed (if you're using the same type of oil as was prevalent when the car was made. I don't change my oil every 5K miles and haven't for a very long time, but that's the "fixed interval" at which this light comes on solid for a 2004 Solara, it blinks at startup between 4500 or maybe it's 4750 miles and 5K miles since last change, I don't recall exactly).
You are taking a disastrously wrong approach to auto maintenance that will cost you a fortune and gain you little to nothing. A strategic, analytical approach is needed.