You can usually find that information in a Haynes or Chiltons manual, which you can usually buy from auto parts stores (Autozone, Advance Auto, etc), though each store usually only carries one of those brands. You can of course buy them online, too.
If you need the actual factory service manual, I believe there is a website that allows you to pay for X days of access to the factory manuals for various models. The alternative is to buy the physical copies of the service manual, but those can be very expensive. My 06 has 3 giant volumes, but you can sometimes find these cheap on eBay, which I've been doing. I'm old school enough that I prefer the physical manuals, partly because they are fun to browse, and I've learned a lot this way. But you only need these if for some reason the Haynes/Chiltons manual has omitted a torque spec, which does sometimes happen (really pisses me off), or you're trying to rebuild a power steering pump/rack, etc.
Alternatively, you can sometimes get lucky and find a pdf from a sketchy website. I found the 04 manual this way, but it's only occasionally useful for my 06. YMMV.
EDIT: The Haynes and Chiltons manuals are the economical option, and they are good for 90% of what most people need. However, they like to put torque specs at the front of the chapter, and sometimes the descriptions are not super clear. I think I started going cross-eyed on the suspension specs for my car. What is nice about the factory manual is that the torque spec is very clearly labeled. But again, most of the time it can be figured out. $25 vs $250, your choice

(somebody can probably weigh in on that website for X days of access though, I think it's probably the comfortable middle-ground)