^A common misconception, I think. And no, you do not have A.D.D. as your truck is 2WD.
A name brand 75W-90 or 80W-90 will work just fine for your back differential. You will need a 24mm socket, which I had to go buy just to do this job. Seems unnecessarily large to me...
If you have a 15/16" socket that is pretty dang close, i think it's actually a little tight, but if you tap it on there a bit it may work. It's up to you if you want to push your luck.
Also, you are definitely going to want to invest in a $5 little plastic pump that goes into the bottle of oil. Trying to get it in the diff just by squeezing it out through the little nozzle on the bottle is near impossible, and even if it's possible it's a big time PITA. When you go to Checker auto or wherever to buy the oil, they should have them. No need to buy the industrial strength one, the cheapy should work just fine.
Take the fill bolt off before the drain bolt, just in case you cant get the fill bolt off, you don't want to be stuck with a diff with no oil and no way to get more back in. Just a suggestion, happened to me on my front diff, all my muscle and a breaker bar couldn't get the fill bolt off. Need an air wrench...