One of the most useless yet made complex features in a car...for my use in So Cal sun.
The manual is actually controlled digitally, so its just a stripped down version. I wish it were more manual.
That way I can demand recycle vs outside without other controls overriding it.
I dislike that it auto sets to Recycle mode when I turn the temp contol dial to the cold setting.
I have to make sure its not all the way to cold. I want outside air vs inside air sometimes.
Using a dual auto digital control in other cars I have found to be a bit of a gimmick and useless. Maybe some are better than others..like cooled/vented seats.
Short trips useless, long trips temps change and you still have to adjust it.
As for the wife being cold and you warm, closing the vent and redirecting them works well. I rather have auto oscillating vents than dual front zone auto
Plenty other areas I would spend time improving before I do anything with the AC. I am at full content with the car's current disposition, after doing the alterations I made. Others have different priorities they prefer...And if the AC is one of them, so be it!
As mentioned look into it...maybe its something you will get great satisfaction in doing? Or pick another area to improve! Enjoy!